So I’m pretty sure that most Indian parents out there dreamed that their child was going to grow up and be a doctor or if not that, at least an engineer. I didn’t realize that my profession as an accountant didn’t really count in the eyes of the community. Not until I had heard someone say that I was barely an accountant.
The funny thing is that I’m the one with a standard degree in my family. My siblings and even my cousins did much more interesting things that just accounting. I’m a little jealous that my degree is so boring.
So let’s talk about the standards and expectations that the Indian community has. If you’re a doctor, you’ve made it. If you marry a doctor, you have also made it. Now if you are both doctors, you both are pretty much royalty.
I’m assuming that this mentality that the generations above us have of becoming a doctor has to do with two things : financial stability and status in the community. I have even heard people in our generation talk about the fact that if someone is a doctor (or if you marry one), that person has it made.
It has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that you might actually love what you do. The people I know that are doctors have this passion for their respective specialties. They work pretty damn hard at it too.
Now let’s talk about the rest of us. The accountants, the lawyers, the business people, the journalists, the artists, etc. Are we now considered unsuccessful? When people meet us, do they look down on us because we didn’t want to become doctors? What is so wrong about following a different passion?
In past posts, I’ve talked about making something you love into a financially stable career. What if you did that already? I honestly think that as long as a person has ambition for something and can support themselves, they can do anything they want in the world. And I think people have stopped caring what the community thinks regarding this. Otherwise, we wouldn’t have had such a range of professions out there now.
The question really is whether or not we will get respect for what we have chosen to do with our lives.