Have you ever heard someone who talks about something they’re into and it is the most amazing thing they have ever experienced? And then they talk about something else and it’s just as amazing? Does it ever seem like some people are just really overly passionate about a few things?
I was wondering this the other day when I had heard a few people discussing different restaurants they had been to. Was it a real passion? If so, is it necessary to really emphasize what you feel or think about it?
I had always thought that if someone had a passion for something, it’d just show. You would notice by what they did or how they spoke about it. When people really get that over-excited about something, is it real or is it a show?
Maybe these people are really that enthusiastic about the things they talk about. Maybe passion about something just runs over and there’s no other words to describe it.
But maybe, sometimes, people are just a little too passionate because they want to sound like they really care about something. They want to validate that their opinions are important. Maybe if they sound passionate about something, other people will respect them more. It’s kind of like the whole idea of posting everything we think or do on a social media site just so we can count the likes and comments we receive.
When did we become so needy for others’ approval? Why do we have to be something we aren’t? Why can’t we just be satisfied in knowing we enjoy what we enjoy and not have to get validation for everything we do or say?
4 thoughts on “Passion or Validation?”
Some people do just need validation for what they do! I guess that kind of means that it isn’t a passion, because a passion should be rewarding in itself!
Shouldn’t it? I feel like sometimes when someone is over enthusiastic, that person is kind of faking it.
Shaillee, would you be interested in joining the 1000 Voices of Compassion bloggers event? More here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/306227992909657
Hey Roshni, I requested to join the group. What is it exactly?